Are You Going to Live Your Life for This Partner?

"I'm going to have to figure this out. And if it just doesn't work out that you're no longer attracted to me, I can accept that," she says of her relationship with a trans man. "It's terrifying because you're stepping into this piece of yourself internally and sometimes externally ... that your partner didn't necessarily sign up for." She adds: "The most important thing is, again, am I going to live my life for this partner and cut off a piece of myself?"