The Status of Patriarchy in the Church

Early interpretations of texts suggest male-same-sex intercourse subverted patriarchal gender norms. For a man to have sex with another man, specifically anal sex, is for a man to treat another man's masculinity as though it is femininity. So then that raises more of a hermeneutical question for Christians today,. What is the status of patriarchy in the kingdom of God? And what should Christians believe about patriarchy?