Is This a Relationship I Can't Survive?

I was feeling good in myself until everything over the last couple of weeks. I know he's planning to propose at Christmas. But is this a relationship I can stay in? Are these red flags that I’m ignoring because I put him on a pedestal compared to my past relationships? Is this something I need to accept or should I run? Okay. To me, my gut is saying you need to get out of there. It sounds like not a good place for you. And unfortunately, what you've built him up in your mind to be this amazing best friend, this fantastic boyfriend, he's in reality, he's not. and coming to terms with that is tough.