Taking Out Her Toy That Gives Her Pleasure

Your dick is not the only thing that can give her pleasure, and it never will be. Stay in control by being able to initiate taking out her toy that you know gives her a lot of pleasure,. If she wants to, don't have fear around that. There's no reason to have fear around her toys. And as long as you're communicating with your partner, andr your feeling good about the things that you're trying, and youre opening up to trying new things, then you'll be in a really good place.