The Importance of Minding Your Business

My niece confided in me that she is a lesbian. I supported her and let her know I'd be there ETC usual ally stuff. She told me she's going to come out of the hole to come out to the whole world this week. But when my father passed away, he said any gay individual in our family would be written out of the will. He also made it clear they wouldn't just split the money with the gay relative but instead put some aside for charitable causes. My wife however said that being an arsehole was not how you should treat someone who has been through so much. So now we're back at square one...I'm kicking down your door fam