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What’s really going on inside the minds and hearts of today’s teenagers?

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, I sit down with Dr Cheryl Loh, one of Singapore’s leading adolescent psychiatrists and a mother to two teens, to explore the inner emotional world of adolescence: a time of searching, shaping, and often silent struggle.

We unpack what teens are truly longing for, not just connection, but a deep sense of belonging, identity, and emotional safety. Dr Cheryl shares why so many adolescents turn to the digital world to cope, why shame is such a potent and often misunderstood force during these years, and how adults can begin to show up in ways that don’t just manage behaviour, but meet real emotional needs.

What makes this conversation truly special is that it doesn’t stop at insight. Dr Cheryl offers practical, actionable ways for parents, caregivers, and educators to reconnect, rebuild trust, and offer teens the safe, anchored presence they may not know how to ask for.

00:00 Introduction

01:28 Dr Cheryl Loh on Championing Adolescent Mental Health in Singapore

04:24 Why Teen Mental Health Deserves More Attention

10:13 Are Our Teens Simply Misunderstood?

14:37 Parent Guilt, Anxious Parenting & the Pressure to Get It Right

17:33 Teens vs the Internet: Navigating Influence, Shame & Identity

22:37 How to Stay Present in Your Teen’s Life — Without Pushing Them Away

27:16 Seeing the Good: Shifting from Fixing to Connecting

30:03 What Increases the Risk of Mental Health Struggles in Adolescents?

34:36 The Role Educators & Schools Play in Teen Emotional Safety

37:55 The Social Media Trap: Why Teens Seek Validation Online

39:42 Showing Up for Your Teen & Playing the Long Game

44:17 Netflix’s Adolescence: When Emotional Needs Go Unmet

46:45 Why Healthy Parent-Teen Relationships Matter More Than Ever

48:53 Helping Teens Build an Inner Compass in a Noisy World

50:52 The Power of Good-Enough Parenting

52:57 What Gives Dr Cheryl Hope About This Generation

54:40 The Billboard Question: “Say Hello to Your Kid Today”

56:07 Episode Closing

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