i tried to talk to her about it and, like, tell her more about my perspective, but only made it worse. She said things like, you are the one who wants us to be the same. Ye, that's what concerns me about when they tell you to do something,. clara,  the way your talk this now makes me feel this and this and this, and i feel this and i feelthis, and i feeling this and i feels this, right? So, so it's kind of interesting. Let me ask you, is this something that has happened with other people s yes, ok. And so help help me understand your perception of thatit was a