How to Use Vacation Time to Your Advantage

"I don't really have skin in the game of like how you use your time off," he says. "But maybe we should find like, we should talk about your prior." If it turned out that this person was being charged actual PTO then there might be another layer to the conversation. But from my perspective, like starting with the assumption that this is a healthy thing and seeing if you can get to a place of agreement,. It's usually better than saying, well, that's not a great reason to take time off".