How to Say No to a Man When You're Dating

I would assume are you gonna be upfront with the guy on dates and say hey look I'm Linda this is what I'm looking for if you can't do the X Y and Z I ain't the girl for you how soon do you say that to a man when you're dating? So that's actually what happened with the last partner that I had. He he didn't believe in that he was a so-called traditional guy Christian guy conservative allegedly allegedly but he was like no there's I'm not gonna do that. 50-50 yeah and I was like what like there's no wayso that was like really really like at first we were friends it was a different kind of situation