How to Protect Yourself in a Relationship

You need to make sure that something's actually changed in him rather than him still being all over the place and not knowing what he actually wants. I think it boils down to you need to value your own heart like and protect yourself in this too. You are choosing a partner to go through all of the ups and downs of life with. That includes when one of you is sick or it includes all of those highs and lows. And there's nothing wrong with prioritizing work if you're someone that's not married or maybe even if you are married, it's okay to prioritize work for a time.