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#285 | Kacie Derby; Funerals are for the living, processing death

The Vance Crowe Podcast

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How Do You Want People to Celebrate Your Life?

"I don't want people to be crying over me. I don't want there to be a big deal," he says of his death. "That's like an aha moment for me." In America, we think that the only feeling we're supposed to feel is happy,. So we want to get past anything else that's not happy so that we can get back to it. But feelings are supposed to be felt. And you need to feel all these feelings of sadness and grief and anger and resentment even if they're not all positive feelings.

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