Devale, the Festival of Lights in India

In india there's a thing called devale. De valey is the festival of lights. So everybody in our family leaves the lights on this jus. My mam does it, my sister does it, but i'm the worst offender. Our daughter was er two and a half year old, you know, leaving the bathroom, and she didn't get to turn off the light last night. She had a melt down, and now the rest of the night ritual is totally lost. And i think if we can take, if we can change our perspectives on decision making and allow ourselves to make more mistakes, we'll make better decisions.