
Book Club: DubCon
Stuff Mom Never Told You
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Is Not You Not Romantic?
A papova argues, all these dominant ideas come together to make something quite toxic. A one uncontested indicator of consent, though, is if we initiate sex. If we start it, we must both want it and consent to it, right? Anything else would be unthinkable, unimaginable. Hopefully by now we have already begun to see the cracks in the story. Because we should be having a certain amount of sex, so society tells us,. We should be having sex in a particular way. So what if we don't want to? But we should, and so we initiate it anyway. Not true. Conset mora.
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