The author is a fan of Thai Tashiro's research on relationship satisfaction and dating. He found that couples who were happy tended to rate their partners higher in three different traits. Those three traits tend to be conscientiousness, intelligence awareness and attunement. As somebody with a conscientious partner, your love increases over time as you continue to feel grateful for them.

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