i love that there's this one section in your book about holding tension in life, giving ways speak to that little bit. Because there's so much more that make us alike, as opposed to what separates us. When we want things to be a certain way, that tension can pull us apart and just rip us to shreds. But parker palmer has this great line about happens if we can let our hearts break open and let the light in? And that goes to a leonard coen line too is the cracks ore where the light gets in. It lets us blend our inner life through the reflection with our outer life of what we're trying to achieve.