You Don't Need to or Should You Be With Someone You're Not Physically Attracted To

People who are doing this different work of building their circuaries of attraction to healthy relationships really need to know that you do not need to be with someone who you're not physically attracted to. The people that they are sexually attracted to maybe spiritually and emotionally don't feel as mature or safe or generous or authentic. There's this wonderful erotic charge and that is a really great thing but if your gut tells you that this is not someone who has the capacity to relate in the kind of deep way that you're looking for, it might not be the best match. Losing your taste can torture you when finding love doesn't work right.