How to Survive the Chaos of Battle

"When life feels like it's collapsing in on you, the walls crumbling down. The instinct is to let all the destruction impact your self-work," he says. "But no, you've felt the walls crumbling before and all you did was run harder." He asks himself: am I watering the weeds in my life or the flowers? Are we focusing on what can go wrong instead of everything that can go right?