The Self Care Piece of Marriage

When John used to just have the kids. Well, I would go to the library for a couple of hours a week on a Monday. The goal of it was for me to work on my writing career. But I spent many times in the locked room in the library on the floor sleeping crying because I had a really rough week and I just needed a place to like let it all go. It's difficult to thriving marriage that there are two healthy people who are cultivating their own individuality by themselves. When we when that falls away, marriage hurts for it.