How to Be More Invitational in an Interview

There are three moments to every interview. They don't happen on any kind of timeline, so they're a bit like naughty. So the first one is the moment where you want the job. Now that can happen before the interview, but it can happen in the interview. There's this moment where you go, no, I really want this. The second moment is when they decide they want you. That's the one we miss because we're so full of the blarging,. the noise and the internal dialogue: am I good enough or am I an imposter? Will I be found out? We're so caught up in that internal dialogue that we don't often spot the moment