How to Live Desire Without Shutting It Down

A lot of men I worked with identify as nice guys and they, you know, kind of shut it down to try to make someone else feel better. It's then I think what you're helping men do too is, okay, how do you live it? How do you bring it to the world in a way that's not just a fire hose or people are getting doused by it?" "I feed that little flame with my breath, with my awareness that it exists," she says. 'With allowing desire to flow through me'