Household Divides: Chores, Lack of Sex and How to Fix It With Caylee Cresta
The Man Enough Podcast
The Importance of Communication in Sex
"We don't know, number one, how we're even feeling. And we are taught to shut ourselves off immediately for self preservation," she says. "If the dam breaks just a little bit, we don't believe that we are worthy enough of love ... and you will be able to take it."
Will splitting the share of household chores lead to greater intimacy in the bedroom? Digital creator and TikTok marriage counselor, Caylee Cresta is no stranger to translating sensitive topics between men and women. Today, she shares her findings on splitting household chores, breaking cycles of trauma, disconnected intimacy in relationships and how to foster greater understanding between men and women.
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Timecodes:
01:10 Episode Starts
03:15 Introducing Caylee Cresta
07:43 When Is The Last Time You Didn’t Feel Enough?
14:15 Breaking Cycles Of Trauma
18:34 Looking For Love (In Wrong Places)
27:13 Doing The Dishes Does Not Equal Better Sex
29:38 Sexual Disconnect Between Women And Men
43:15 Holding Your Partner Accountable
50:55 Stay At Home Girlfriend
56:22 The Contract of Marriage
01:04:10 Jamey’s Challenge For Male Listeners
01:06:42 What Does It Mean To Be Man Enough?
Quotes:
“Feminism is about choice.” - Caylee Cresta
“Sometimes the familiar is actually not safe. “ - Caylee Cresta
“My father’s sense of obligation was greater than his sense of self preservation.” - Caylee Cresta
“We fall in love with a man’s potential, not who he is.” - Caylee Cresta
“For women, intimacy doesn’t start when you take your clothes off, it started that morning.” - Caylee Cresta
“Men can recognize that women tend to tie emotions into sex yet you don’t understand why your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you when you aren’t providing her with any emotional support.” - Caylee Cresta
“Femininity is a quality…there’s nothing wrong with a woman embracing her femininity. .. at the same time, a woman should not be looked down upon for having the same ambitions as a man has been able to have.” - Justin Baldoni
About Caylee Cresta
Caylee Cresta is a content creator and tik tok star with over 2M followers famously known for her comeback series where she reacts to toxic opinions and videos from men (usually regarding women) through stern advice and education. Caylee created her channel while working as a public construction project manager where her male employees would share the pains of marriage and at the same time complain about the lack of sex in their relationships. She started to wonder “what do men want from women?” and thus the channel was born. Her aim is to bridge the communication gap between men and women by explaining viewpoints that many women are hesitant to express themselves.
Guest Social Links:
TIKTOK: @cayleecresta
IG: @cayleecresta
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