What Have You Learned About Yourself Since Separation?

"It can feel like a checkmate, but it's only a checkmate to the part of your identity that needs the other person to be part of you with that experience," she says. "We're all just walking each other home as Ram Dassar."

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After 2.5 years of being in relationship with each other, Blu and André share why they ended things and what they learned. They dive deep into how to create the foundations for a healthy partnership with love, respect, and play. They explain some of the challenges they faced together, and how they moved through conflict with grace.

They also share how they individually processed their breakup, and what the pain taught them. On the other side of grieving their relationship, they have remained close, despite new loves coming into their lives. Reminding us that true love lasts forever.

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Timecodes:

0:00 Intro

4:54 Why We Stayed Friends

10:55 Conflict in our relationship

24:42 Processing Difficult Emotions in Partnership

33:52 Facing Jealousy

47:07 True Love Lasts Forever

51:26 What We Learned

55:04 Why We Broke Up

1:08:20 Grieving Our Break Up

1:23:14 Dating Other People

1:33:05 Our Key Takeaways

1:38:25 Answering Your Questions

1:44:47 Conclusion

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Blu:

Blu is a motivational speaker, artist, musician, podcast host and co-founder of Florescence – a modern mystery school for women. She has dedicated the past decade to her understanding of the medicinal nature of the plant kingdom as well as the archetypal nature of the collective unconscious. Blu’s genius is in her ability to connect with the world that lies beyond our 5 senses while keeping her feet firmly planted on the ground so that she can bring us golden truths of beauty, love and unity in a way that is playful and authentic.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluofearth/

Website: https://www.bluofearth.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Bluofearth

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Know Thyself

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André Duqum