The Gift of Marriage

The gift of marriage is, if you're going to love your spouse, you seek to understand them before you're trying to be understood. To do that well, means staying open to their spouses experience point of view and daring to know them. I think it takes tremendous courage. Sometimes i may not think sometimes i've asked my spouse a question, emily, don't tell mete, want to know les lie to me, right? I just want the view i want. I don't want to accommodate and make room for and consider another real person and how he thinks differently. And so that will always stretch us, but it's a gift. Ultimately, when we go through it,