I Don't Want to Be a Racist - I'm Not There.

Eliza Drexler: I feel like i feel f the initial stages of desire now for people that maybe i otherwise wouldn't have. When i tell people about it, i always get the same disgusted, judgmental reaction. The whole idea of taking on racism through dating and using men of color for your i don't want to be a racist project is a complete non starter, if not radically wrong. But i still think it's kind of brave, brave to take on your prejudices so explicitly in the most intimate parts of yourself,. especially when there's no road map to help you do it.