If relationships are too hard to solve, then let it go and start fixing the other stuff. When you're ready, a relationship will come. You need to stop chasing it. If i try to be something else, by definition, i'm going to be insufficient,. Because i'm not there yet. And that gap that i feel about myself is going to be something that other people pick up on. It's another huge thing people don't really understand: A big part of being in a healthy relationship is learning how to be alone. Like, if you arnt bein a really healthy relationship, you need to be like comfortable and happy with yourself. The more grounded you are, the