The Fear of No Contact in Relationships

For instance, so many people are afraid of having boundaries. We have a negative association with no. If we finally have healthy boundaries in a situation where we've previously resisted having healthy boundaries, guess what that tells us? Tiade, oh yes, tan sat, i can successfully create healthy boundaries. And you would think that we would be pleased with this knowledge, but actually, for a lot of us, that can be quite scary. So if we stop playing those roles, if we allow ourselves to grow up, then we have to take responsibility for ourselves. and sometimes we are afraid of that.