The Relationship Isn't Toxic

You can have a heated conversation, or even yelling back and forth, but it shouldn't be toxic. It shouldn't turn into name calling and belittling to the other person. That's when it becomes toxic. The argument that we had, or whatever it was called, it was new to me. It was not toxic. It was just, it felt like self defence. This is where i am. I'm not going to let you break past that. Thereis an allowance for expressing as an allowance for authenticity. But there is an allowance for venting. We don't think it's healthy to put on a smile and be silent around each other all the time When you're