Is There a Restraining Order?

I was granted a restraining order, but not for her. I think he may be called her 10 times total. She doesn't want to see him. So I'm saying you only have to see him a couple more times. And then he goes back. Both of us were having nightmares. I was waking up in the night screaming. She was talking about snakes coming to get her. He rips my phone out of my hands. When we got our temporary plan, it said that we needed it needed a public place and the public place we decided on was Target. The judge felt that I proved that he was a threat to me, but I did not prove that he wasa threat