When You Get Attention, Sometimes It's Negative

The problem with the tension we all know that when you get attention, sometimes it's negative, right? This is true in dating. Like every young man knows this that you like a girl, you like a woman. But there's a risk, of course, right? Because after you get that attention, if you're lucky, you get positive attention and she says, yes. She'll go to dinner with you or whatever. We also know it's also possible the attention might be negative. Maybe she says no. Maybe she rejects you. Maybe she doesn't like the way you look. Or it's even possible they might just say, go away. And again, it's hard