AI-powered
podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
How to Recognize and Reclaim Existential Kinks
"I enjoy being desecrated, legitimately desecrated. And constrained," she writes. "When I recognize I actually want to be constrained, right? Like just take an example of a very jealous male partner that a woman might have." She says some people don't trust their own impulses because they can't afford it or control them. But in the case of self-defilement, there is pleasure present and you can repattern through with pleasure present.