Do You Recognize the Patterns of Your Father Treating Your Child?

When you think about how different your lives look right now and where you have lived. How people deal with emotional stress how different that is. Are there moments when you think, oh this isn't only personal this is also that we are living in different worlds? I guess it's an interesting question because my parents would now that I was in the US they would option use that against me so my mom would say like I want to come and like stay with you for like a month or two. And I would say well I would prefer if you stayed like maybe two weeks but then she would say you're so American you're so superficial like you don't value hospitality. So yes I did recognize