Is Trickery and Manipulation a Part of the Conversation?

You don't need to attract her in the first minute. All you need to do is reassure her you're not a psychist. Trickery, manipulation is pretty much never there. There are fringe ways that trickery, a manipulation, maybe might work in certain circumstances. But if you're a good person and you want the most effective way, trickery and manipulation are never part of it, ever.