The Dangers of Being a Socially Aggressive Person

I get wanting to be a little cautious but explicitly banning the child from your house because they made a joke that offended you when they might just be like a socially awkward kid. I also think it's pretty damaging for you to be that hung up on somebody commenting a fact about your body. Most parents have to watch their kid make friends with people who like fully bully them or like totally when I was 14 I was like meeting drug dealers who would like drive with a gun in the car. It's crazy and you're making it about you so I do think you are the asshole this is the only friend your daughter has she has this one sleepover with her.