CNN's John Sutter shares his thoughts on the new book, "The 12 Rules of Parenting" He says he didn't come to this book for parenting advice. But there are a few nuggets of wisdom in here about not trying to be your kid's friend and how kids can be damaged by a lack of attention as much as by mental or physical abuse. 'I am skeptical of any parent who thinks that they can condense everything about parenting into even 12 rules'