Getting Your Needs Met Sexually

This is not a game. It's realizing, all right, what is a behavior that brings about attraction in another human? That's what this is. And it has to do with paying very close attention to your response, to your reaction, especially when you don't get your way sexually. You can literally get addicted to a certain emotional state and a certain reaction in topics of your life. His go-to emotional state, when he thinks sex, he thinks frustrated. Those are his go-to emotions.