When I was 25 years old I had graduated from college after five years with like a 2.4 GPA right. Didn't really have any money was applying to medical school for the second time right. And so as I started working with these people in my office I started to notice a couple of things. The first is when they came in I thought even in my head I thought wow this guy's like a real loser like me we're both losers. But as I learned more about psychiatry I started to realize oh my god this person is actually not a loser. What's actually as I talked to them about their experience of life I started to notices all kinds of subtle differences that we take for