Is It Not Worth It?

i think curiosity, vulnerability and courage to have that vulnerability are key ingredients in a good relationship. Carry just mean to pinches - those little kind of bug bears that build up. Sometimes it's fine to let them go but if the behavior continues to bug you,. then the pinch becomes a crunch, and now you've got a problem. You've got a much bigger problem that could have been much more easily resolved when it was smaller. And so that's why, in the book we talk about how often we say, it's not worth it. It's a small thing, it'snot worth it. Was there anything else that you feel really are or whether you agree with that summary