Is It Okay to Get Married and Have Children?

The burden is almost exclusively put on folks with uteruses, right? And it's not fair, but that is the reality, right? Absolutely. But I also want to point like point out that the relationship is most incompatible for you. He said it out loud to you. Like, I am not going to be able to provide those things. You're going to have to move on from me because those things are not in my ability to give. The fact that you're incompatible with this person doesn't mean that you have to change those core values.