Pro Active People Make Loving Actions

Pro active people subordinate feelings to values love. Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Pro active people have a circle of concern at least as big as their circle of influence, accepting the responsibility to use their influence effectively. Direct control problems are solved by working on our habits. They are obviously within our circle of influence. Indirect control problems are solving by changing our methods of influence. These are the public victories of habits,. Five and six - confrontation, moving away from your old ways in favor of new ones. How liberating it is to accept the idea that i can learn some new method of human influence instead of constantly trying to shape up one person into something else. No