How to Recover From an Infidelity Episode

My husband admits to paying for sexual acts four times and says that someone he works with showed him how to do it. He makes his actions seem like part of a fantasy world, something that was mostly lived out online. But at some point, Shuggers, real people became part of this world and it was no longer a fantasy. On top of the messaging and the actions, I am also extremely concerned about my husband's reviews of the women he met with. They indicate to me that he was somewhat entrenched in this community, willing and wanting to treat women like objects. My husband wants to stay married and get better. Lately, he's turned back to healthier distractions in his life