Is There a 50-50 in Marriage?

I think that's something that so many people are curious about. I have found that if you stick with it over the course of your entire relationship, you may have 50-50 over time. If I look over my marriage, if I were to judge it in year five or year ten, there was never 50-50. There were times when I felt like I was 70% in and he was doing 30%. Because of the choices that I made in the terms of how I wanted our family to look, I had to take my foot off of my career gas pedal. Those are the natural compromises that are required.