Is Small Talk a Good Thing?

I think like small talk is part of recognizing the dignity of the person in front of you. You know niceties are also kindness. So small talk you welcome hospitality. Just more like just more understand. I'm gonna be 37 in a week and I don't got any kids either but there's an intention for me to have a family. Why do we have so many people making choices that really are against our biological nature most people given the ideal circumstances would have children and families.