i think what's going on here is that, i think you're afraid of letting a piece of work, your identity, be your work for two reasons. One is because you don't want it to. You're afraid, maybe that all your identity will be work based then. And I'm sort of getting a sense thatyou don't want your identity to be based on something that isn't a strong foundation,. Because f if work blows up in your face, then your identity goes with it yes. What do you think? I don't know what attaching my ego to work looks like to i can't even, i can'tEven comprehend it really, to to understand to answer you