Co Regulation, Is It Co Dependency?

Co regulation is based on the idea of like, interdependency. And i think it's important to acknowledge birthing. People are very needy after they give birth and their healing have gone through some a birth event. So being allowing ourselves to be cared for by our partners is essential to the health of the partnership. I many be like inclusive in my language burthing people because we're so ot to always take care of ourselves,. yet here you are after having a baby, unable to take care of yourself.