The price of estrangement is so high that we inherently do a much better job of trying to shave down and ameliorate grudges or fights. People who are neither total strangers nor complete intimates, this would be the most likely terrain in which people would hold on to years long grudges. If you've got a good grudge story that you want to tell us, maybe we can share it in a future episode,. Just send us a voice memo about a grudge resolved or unresolved.