Our faith points to a living god, which means our faith is constantly going to be envolving and open to disruption. We cannot have faith in a particular construct or set of dogma because those things are meant to point to a living, personal godye. When you encounter truth that shocks you out of your complacency, that's a healthy deconstruction. I would almost call that instead of a deconstruction, a shattering a. It's a demolition, a from the outside. A lot of people who haven't been through that kind of abuse often, are often ill equiped to know how to talk about it and to deal with it.