What Do You Want to Do if You Have a Food Allergy?

I tell guys there's two options either you say I'm picking you up at this time we're going to this restaurant do you have an issue with this kind of food if you do let me know or you say I have three options for you. what would be the right way because it's a huge turn off for women that's what you said in eighth grade when you all got together your friends are like so what do we do now? "You don't want to be given any options" she says.