161 Couples Therapist Advice on Break Ups, Love Languages, and Conflict | Vanessa Bennett & John Kim 161
The Mikhaila Peterson Podcast
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How Do You Know if You Shouldn't Fix Something?
A lot of time, the nose a, you know, it might be a sensitive, sensitive area that requires a conversation. So maybe it's not even about what the persons saying no about, but something that's running deeper. If i'm usually the fixer and i'm working on it's not my responsibility to fix this for you, or self soothe you, or whatever. In this instance, i would say it would be your responsibility to come to me and say, can we talk about this, no, and why it's bothering me? Not my responsibility to say, he i sense that you're upset by my ser so not chasing after, yes, right? But also
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