How to Win in a Marriage?

If you have a good marriage for a long time, both must win. Both must benefit. If one becomes unhappy and is losing all the time, the marriage is going to break. Next the next one is lose win. What does he mean by that? Basically, lose win means you decide to lose, you quit. You let the other person win. It's basically being weak. Nice guys finish last. I say the better way to say that is, nice and weak guys finished last. Sometimes you can't be nice. Just like i said, if you're competing, you don't want to be nice. You don't just let them win. So that's also not a