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Do What Men Tell You, Even if You Don't Want To
i'm wondering how even this sort of relatively benign religious upbringing, culty upbringing, pre programmed you to be an abuse ove relationships due to the power dynamics involved. I was taught that no matter what, if my husband wanted sex, i say yes. My job is literally to be a maid and a baby maker. And it had this underlying people pleasing. Do what men tell you, even if you don't want to. Your feelings don't matter in those situations. It really set me up for that dynamic later on her life. So i never had a real relationship. I didn't get to learn my boundaries and relationship. I Didn't understand what i wanted in a romantic room.